Why are Emotional Triggers on the Rise?
Our Heavenly "Father" is Kicking Us Out of the House...
We’ve seen such a rise in what are referred to as emotional “triggers” these days. This is because people need to feel their emotions in order to work through them to find the healing they desire. The triggers are there to help. Yet people avoid them…
Our Desires Are Answered Vibrationally
Whenever you see or experience something in this life that you do not like, you “ask” vibrationally for the opposite. When I hear the verse Romans 8:26 I think that this is what it’s referring to.
“In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit itself intercedes for us through wordless sighs,” (Romans 8:26)
So our desires are given to us vibrationally. We don’t have to verbalize our pain to ask for healing. That’s already done. But, we do have to match up vibrationally with our healing.
People who believe with a great amount of faith in their healing can pray, “Thank you, God,” as if it’s already been answered, and receive what they prayed for. Gregg Braden talks about this mode of prayer in the following video.
However, most people don’t pray like that, and many people today are conflicted over whether or not they want to heal. We have a spiritual self (higher self or God, however you want to view it) that wants healing for us. And, physically, we all long to feel better and sometimes we make decisions that will lead us there and sometimes we don’t.
Because we are conflicted, we don’t often get to the point of healing that we desire. I believe we will when the physical part dies. But if we long to find healing here and now, we need to become united with our spiritual desires.
Triggers on the Rise
The reason triggers are on the rise is that people are asking for healing but, more than ever, attempting to stop the healing because it hurts. If you have a large unrelated physical trauma and try to cover it with a bandaid, the bandaid won’t actually heal the trauma.
People have emotional wounds that they will not allow to heal. We have these sanskaras. When you let them come up, you will feel uncomfortable. You may feel a large fear or anger or sadness. These are big emotions. They’ve been bottled up inside for years. But when you let them come up, sit with them, and allow them to come out of your body, you will start to heal.
But, many people today like to hold up their trauma to claim victimhood status. If they healed from their trauma, they would have an identity crisis and think something like, “If I am not a victim, who am I?” They would lose their friends who were of the same victimhood vibration. It would be a very lonely and difficult time for them. So they fight against the healing.
Just like healing physically might make us itch or sore, healing mentally or emotionally has some negative feelings attached to it. People don’t want to go through the difficult healing process so they try to find quick fixes.
Our medical system often promotes quick fixes because they can have a customer for life if they get you on medication to make the (emotional or physical) pain go away. But this is why we have side effects. The universe, or God-source, or your higher self is leading you to healing and ignoring the pain just makes the pressure (to make changes) rise.
We’re Paddling Upstream Tiring Ourselves Out
It’s like we put our boat in a raging river a long time ago but we’re paddling upstream against it. And we’re going to end up flowing downstream to what we want eventually (even if that is from our death). The pressure in the stream is something we cannot fight against forever. We’ll wear out from being tired of doing that.
I’ve written about how people who play saviors have the weight of the world on their shoulders. People who play victim get tired also. It’s very tired to try constantly have to deal with the crap that they love to complain about. They may complain and complain all day, and when they go to bed, they’re going to be exhausted because all they thought about was depressing things all day. There’s no hope for them. And hope uplifts and energizes us.
Mature Adults Know to Pressure Children
A responsible adult who had a son or daughter of adult age still living with them would eventually kick that “child” out if he or she did not take any actions to better their life, like getting a job and paying for necessities. If you were that parent, you can see that to help the child, you would need to make it more difficult for the child to stay in the home if they were not acting responsibly.
It’s basically what God or the universe or your higher self does to you. When you’re in a state where you are not trying to heal and get better, there is a spiritual force putting pressure on you to go and make a change. This is because no one will change if the pain to stay the same is less than the pain to change.
We all have different thresholds for pain so you can’t compare situations to other people. If someone finds it easier to live at home versus going out to get a job, then they won’t go out to get a job. Most people have desires to pay for things their parents won’t and to live alone without always being watched over. So most people find it more painful to stay at home rather than get a job and move out.
Stuffing Emotions Down Until Rock Bottom
So many of us tend to live with stuffing down our emotional pain rather than go through feeling it. That is, until our pent-up samskaras (emotional wounds) start affecting our lives in ways we just can’t live with anymore.
This is when it starts to become worth it to deal with your emotional pain. This is why people decided it was okay to lose their friends and relatives. They decide that it’s more painful to be with those people than without them.
Affirming Victimhood
But, like I said, so many people today have different pain tolerances. And people have “support” groups of other like-minded people. They “affirm” that it is right to feel in ways that are detrimental to them.
If someone feels like they were born in the wrong body and really wants to change their body form, they’re not emotionally well. Rather than dealing with the emotions (realizing why they felt like there was something wrong with them in the first place), people affirm that they are correct to hate their bodies.
If you look to other people (rather than God-source or truth/reality), you will often be misled. It’s like the blind leading the blind. Only God-Source, your higher self or the reality/universe knows what is really going on and how things work. Humans have a very limited perspective and that perspective is even more limited when they outright hide away from the truth.
If you listen to other people say you are a “victim” to some “persecutor” then you won’t take responsibility for all that you can be responsible for. I write about The Drama Triangle because it’s the main problem in the world right now. If people teach you the drama triangle perspective, you can’t see the big picture, and it’s the equivalent of the parent who makes the home so comfortable that they keep their children from ever wanting to leave and mature.
Our society is that dysfunctional home. The US government and woke beliefs are the parents who try to make the home as comfortable as possible by affirming & placating people.
But, we all have a spiritual backing, a “father” of sorts, who knows what’s best for us and keeps making it more and more uncomfortable, so that eventually we will all hit rock bottom and look for what will make us better (that’s responsibility for our own mental/emotional health for everyone paying attention). If we look to others to make us feel better, it will never work out.
Because of this, there is a higher power making it more and more uncomfortable for people and they’re getting triggered at higher rates. They’re still fighting the raging river right now. But you’ll also see more and more people coming to the truth and taking personal responsibility.